Internet Socializing Good for Teens
There is a lot of controversy about teens spending so much time on the internet. There is some research that is indicating that all this time they are spending may actually be a good thing for them.
The New York Times recently ran an article: “Teenager’s Internet Socializing Not a Bad Thing”. There is a discussion that is based mostly on current research by Mizuko Ito “Living and Learning With New Media.” He has been looking at how teens are using the internet. According to Ito: “…their participation is giving them the technological skills and literacy they need to succeed in the contemporary world. They’re learning how to get along with others, how to manage a public identity, how to create a home page.” If you want to read more than the summary above, read the full 58 page white paper.
The tools they are using are merely modern versions of ways teens have always communicated and shared. Teens used to be famous for hogging the family phone for hours on end while catching up with their friends. now the may be in MySpace or Facebook, twittering or texting. They live in a multimedia world that is incomprehensible to the older generation. They multitask fluently, and none of this detracts from their real life, in person interactions. If anything, it is allowing for more attempts at reaching out, since there is a layer of technology between them and the interaction. So someone who might be shy about approaching someone in person, may do it through texting.
I hope we all stop worrying so much about this. As long as teens are still having in-person interactions with others we should let them find their own way. Their world is not the one their parents grew up in. I think the parents just need to spend some time learning what it is their teens are doing online. They will probably be surprised and impressed with it all.




